That’s not the only thing he does, of course, but I needed a clickbaity title. This is one of his latest videos and it does have those two exact examples, though:
As far as I saw, most of his lectures focus on the non-self (anattā) and they’re delivered as big rambling streams of consciousness. Some smart people once said that if you truly get it, wisdom (dhamma) just flows out of your mouth freely without thinking. I guess that phenomenon produces eloquent masters that speak in a structured way or with beautiful similes, such as Thích Nhất Hạnh, Ajahn Sumedo, Brad Warner or Ajahn Chah.
But it also produces masters like Paul Hedderman. He’s more like a gurgling stream. You have to run to catch up with the ideas he presents and you never know if you interpret things correctly. But then again, at least he doesn’t make you solve koans. So far what he’s saying clicks with me and even those times when I learn nothing it’s still entertaining, so nothing’s lost. If you find the website a bit disorganized and just want the videos, the YouTube channel is simpler.
Paul has been in the recovery movement since the 80s and I first heard about him from a random person in chat while drunk. This person knew that I know some of the other teachers but specifically suggested Paul. I wonder what the hint was.